Confidence: Owning Your Space, Voice, and Power

EXPERT OPINION BY DONNEBRA MCCLENDON

Confidence isn’t about being the loudest person in the room. It’s about walking into that room knowing—without hesitation—that you belong there.

Yet, too often, professionals chase confidence through external validation—titles, promotions, degrees, and the approval of others. Here’s the truth: confidence is an inside job. It’s built in the quiet moments when you choose to show up boldly, even when uncertainty whispers otherwise.

Confidence Is Owning Your Power

Have you ever been cut off in a meeting—and instead of reclaiming your point, you shrink, staying silent? We’ve all been there. But confident leaders know how to reclaim their space without asking for permission.

Next time that happens, try this:

• Pause. A well-timed silence is powerful. Don’t rush to respond.

• Reclaim your voice. Try: “I’d like to finish my point.” Be firm. Be direct. This is a boundary worth protecting.

• Hold your position. Sit up, lean in, and own your presence. You’re not there by accident—you belong.

Confidence Isn't About Having All the Answers

Corporate culture can trick you into thinking you must always have it all figured out. But true confidence is knowing you can learn, adapt, and grow.

If you’re asked a question you don’t know the answer to, resist the urge to bluff or over-explain. Try this instead:

“That’s a great question. Let me get back to you with a thoughtful answer.”

That’s not weakness—that’s wisdom. Confidence isn’t about knowing everything. It’s about trusting that you have the tools to find the right answers.

Confidence Can’t Be Given—It Has to Be Claimed

Your boss can’t give it to you. HR can’t certify it. Even years of experience won’t automatically guarantee it. Confidence is a mindset you choose.

It’s showing up in rooms where you’re the only one who looks like you—and knowing you still have a seat at the table. It’s understanding that your voice, your perspective, and your presence are valuable.

You are qualified. You are prepared. And most importantly, you are already enough.

So the next time self-doubt tries to creep in, remind yourself: You don’t need permission to lead—just the confidence to own your power.